Does he get a sexual thrill from your stories?

It’s time to start worrying when you find yourself beginning to tell those little “white lies” or omissions to your husband about who & what you’re doing on the side.

And be aware that eventually he might decide HE wants some fun on the side too. Are you prepared to handle that possibility just as smoothly as he is handling this so far with you?

It’s not set in stone that he migth want to play around too how to find a hookup Adelaide, but I’m saying that if he starts feeling that way then he’s got a fair amount of justification for it already if you know what I mean.

Of course it wouldn’t be entirely 100% fair for him to force you to accept his affairs after he already walked you into the affairs habit without his half of the games being mentioned as a possibility. But I’m saying the whole thing becomes a bunch of grey areas once one spouse has already played around with permission from the other.

Because ‘they love their woman and the blatant sharing of that type of personal intimacy with another man’ would be too much for a man to bear

However, I haven’t had the nerve to tell her to sleep with somebody. I think I would have to develop a new attitude of detachment. It’s been safer for me to keep it as a private fantasy, and frankly that fantasy is an enjoyable one. But actually going through with it in reality might not be something I could handle. Continue Reading