This practical arrangement supplants the socially arbitrated and pre-determined convention of monogamy
The concept of monogamous relationships has been inexorably tied sicuro the institution of marriage between couples (as well as that of relationships in the ‘commitment’ phase). It is noteworthy however that monogamy is required for neither of the above, rather, it is society that assumes that the former cannot exist without the latter. Swinging and swingers are not hell bent on destroying either marriage or relationships between couples durante their more general scope. Rather, the distinguishing that the imposition of monogamy onto their relationship is purely societal allows swinger couples puro maintain relationships that mature esatto per point where the aforementioned sexual power dynamic is fluid and regnante-negotiated at verso subconscious plane.
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