I’m a new comer to mumsnet, and I’m maybe not actually a woman, hope this isn’t something

I will be a stepdad to an 18/19 yo son, and indeed i actually do suggest son, as that is the way I read your, rather than my stepson

My boy has recently began online dating 1st serious girl, the woman is 3 years older than him (very early twenties).

We’re very liberal with this son as he are a good person who never caused issues or been a negative kid (a thing that perhaps many young ones cannot state contained in this point in time).

We emerged from the world when he is 13, thus practically 6 years, and our very own connection has long been close, a lot more of a testament to him enabling me personally in in place of my great parenting skills.

Thus back into the subject, since he’s beginning witnessing this female, who we now have fulfilled along with meal with (once), this lady has stayed at our very own house maybe 20-30 period, as well as on only the earliest affair performed he deliver the woman to wherever we were in the home and say hello. We noticed the dinner we’d collectively would make new friends, which it did, but nevertheless, when they reach our home, the child dissappears in his place along with her therefore don’t also see this lady unless we head to their room and state hello. I found myself initially astonished at this as the woman is older than him and I could have thought that she’d require claiming hello although he failed to want to do they.

She are shy, and then he could be embaressed, but on their part this could be considerably off personality

We have permitted my spouse to use the top chair because of this as is without question the fact (just for suggestions, we have constantly generated combined conclusion about our very own child, and talked about parenting tactics). Therefore after the earliest couple of era it had been only overlooked by my spouse nevertheless now, their grating on myself that doesn’t manage quite appropriate and as their your homes (thats all three people), they seems disrespectful on his role and hers. Continue Reading